Tuesday, December 27, 2011

There is a 1st time for everything

What a year! 2011 has been for me. Quitting my job earlier this year, to chase a dream, has certainly been worth it. Just scrolling through previous posts on this blog and paging through my Facebook pictures from the last 10 months, has left me in awe. Not at myself, but rather at God's work in my life. Looking at my past and the humble background I come from, to where I am now just goes to show that His plans are greater than we could ever plan for ourselves. God, you rock. I will remember this year for many reasons, but most of all

I will remember 2011 as the year of many "first times"
  • First time living outside South Africa
  • First time in non-English speaking country (minus 1 day in Mozambique on pit stop)
  • Snorkeling 
  • Resigning from a job (previous job in order to pursue this adventure)
  • Using free wifi at a coffee shop
  • watching 4 D movie
  • Owning exercise mat and weights 
  • Cooking with gas stove
  • Tasting Mexican food 
  • First Christmas stocking (and not white but at least very cold Christmas)
  • Finally watched Breakfast at Tiffany's
  • First Halloween
  • First Thanksgiving (American)
  • Visiting a Madame Tussauds 
  • First time at opening ceremony for international sporting event (Athletics Championships)
  • Learning to read a different script that is not romanized (Korean Characters)
  • Getting Thai massage from a Thai person in Thailand
  • First time watching a baseball game 
  • First time being a teacher!!!!
Just making this list is getting me so excited for 2012 - looking forward to many more "firsts". Did someone say New years resolutions? I bet get cracking. Despite many failed attempts, I'm still a believer.

by the way: Length of dreadlocks 18 cm


HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!!



Tuesday, December 20, 2011

I heart mascots!!!!

What is it about these guys that just tickles me ?

Ensuring that safety is a high priority - Asian Concert 


All aboard - Penguin Pilot Pororo getting ready for lift off


If these came in my size, I would totally own a pair

This is the closest I will get to a white Christmas- thank you Mr Snowman


Mr and Mrs Samung Lions - this is what celebrity couples are made of.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Love Letter to Mzansi

A few weeks ago I started a kind of "I love uMzansi" campaign on my FaceBook profile where every once in a while I would share what I missed about SA that day.  The aim was to make my fellow South Africans sitting at home realize some of the things they take for granted daily and how much, living as an expat, you miss those things when you are away.  It's really the small things that appeal to our hearts. Here are some random things, in no fancy order, that I miss about a place I'm proud to call home:


I miss drinking tap water - I would't say the water here is poisonous but I have been discouraged to drink tap water, carting heavy litres of water from the store is not fun

English (or even Zulu) Magazines - It can be so uninspiring at my age to only look at pictures

Listening to radio on my way to and from work - I love feeling part of a conversation even when I know they can't actually hear me

I miss Koo baked beans in tomato sauce on a slice of toast - actually make that a Wimpy Breakfast

Sunrise in North Beach, Durban - watching the surfers give new meaning to the term "the early bird"

Sunset in Camps Bay, Cape Town - none can compare

Old Biscuit Mill on a Saturday morning - beautiful people, beautiful place, beautiful food, beautiful vibe

uJeqe - Zulu (homemade) steam bread - plain, buttered, toasted, with curry or beans - it doesn't matter, its that amazing

South African comedy - South Africans know how to poke at each other and still have good laugh about it. Oh yes, coloured is not a racist term in South Africa.

 And of course, I miss my soul mate

Only a few more days till I board that plane home. The excitement, I can no longer contain! 

Final Thoughts 
Home is a place you grow up wanting to leave, and grow old wanting to get back to - John Ed Pearce




Tuesday, December 6, 2011

1st at the scene.....

Recently I had the displeasure of witnessing a car accident happen before my very eyes. It was a cold and rainy day in Manchon Dong, coming home from Homeplus (think Pick and Pay) for grocery shopping and a few Christmas cards. I decided against braving the elements and hailed a cab home instead. Now if you have ever hopped on a bus or cab in Korea, you would know very well that you always need to have "all your affairs in order" before riding on one because, really, anything can happen. I would go as far as to rank it right up there with my fellow Mzansi minibus taxi drivers :( I digress.

Coming around a sharp bend, my driver noticeably reduced the speed, showing off his knowledge of the road. Alas the other cab ahead of us did not. Some swerves, screeches and CRASH!!! into the wall.
We pulled over immediately to try to assist.  Fortunately no one was too badly injured. The police and ambulance were probably there within 10 minutes but waiting with the victims, that felt like an hour.

I have never felt so helpless and guilty at the same time. I felt helpless because I couldn't speak enough Korean to be of any help in this situation. Words and phrases like "hello", thank you", "no onions" or "I am an English teacher" are not very useful in these situations. I watched my cab driver frantically try to call the police and ambulance whilst trying to assist the passenger and driver to see how badly injured they were. All I could say to the young hysterical female passenger , "its ok" in Korean, but I felt like that wasn't enough. I watched her trying to call her loved ones to tell them what had happened and where she was, all the while wailing.

I think that's where the guilt comes in. Having been here for 10 months, surely I should have more words in my vocabulary than I currently do. I've caught myself so often playing charades to navigate through my daily life in the east instead of just adding a few more words to my vocab.  I hope my attitude will change and I will put more effort in doing this in my next year here.

It also made me wonder - what would have happened if it were me? If I was badly hurt? Who would they have notified for me? How would they communicate to me?  Sobering thought, isn't it?

Friday, December 2, 2011

My love hate relationship with Facebook!

Since receiving my first invite to join Facebook back in January 2007 (thank you Lisa) I have never looked back. FaceBook has helped me keep in touch with friends and family without words, more so now than ever since moving to the east. Its helped me network and reconnect with people from my memorable past and helped pass many hours of loneliness and awkward silences. Its transported me to places I never knew existed. And throughout this time, I would say I have kept a safe distance from becoming an "addict", lets just hope it stays that way. 

Having said that there are just a handful of pet peeves that get to me when traveling in the Cyberworld of planet FaceBook.  Hear me out please:

Skew photos - I hate having to tilt my head to see your picture, come on guys, its just one click away

Blurry photos - Is it a bird, is it a donkey?

27 Pictures of the Eiffel tower at different angles

Last but not least, tagging me in photos where I look like I haven't slept in days! Why? Why would you do that to a friend? I'm happy YOU look great, go on post it. But please, pretty please don't tag me.  

Ah, there, I have said it! I've been holding that in for so long. I feel better already.

Final Thoughts 
"When all other forms of communication fail, try words" - unknown

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Introducing......me

My good friend Keke, who I met on the plane coming to Korea (insert sobbing face here) introduced me to an amazing, award winning and rather addictive blog, indieBerries.  It has contended with other sites in my heart (and shortcuts) and now is sitting firmly in my top 3 favourite websites alongside fellow companion FaceBook and Pinterest. In her blog, the beautiful Che challenges you to write a list of 50 things people should know about you.  In the words of Barney Stinson (How I Met Your Mother), Challenge Accepted.

50 things you didn't know about me

  1. I like my second name more than my first but have been unable to convince people to switch over.
  2. I have 2 personalities, 1 before my morning coffee and 1 after.
  3. I hate bad spelling.
  4. I spell and speak South African English, never American! I refuse, I'm not American.
  5. I don't know how to play chess and would love to learn.
  6. I went to boarding school - and loved it!
  7. I was escorted off the ice-rink by the marshals at my first attempt at ice-skating at the risk of injuring myself (how embarrassing), I haven't put skates on since then.
  8. I purchased my first laptop this year after using the SAME desktop computer for 8 years with no upgrading.
  9. One of the first questions I will ask when I get to heaven is, why can't I sing?
  10. At my age I still can't ride a bicycle - what does that make me, a late bloomer?
  11. I haven't lived in the same city as my parents since I was 14 years old (Pietermaritzburg for boarding school, Cape Town for university and my first job, and now Daegu, South Korea)
  12. I don't believe in star signs.
  13. One of my biggest worries when I considered moving to Asia was where I was going to do my hair.
  14. And hence this is the longest time I have gone without visiting a hairdresser - 8 months and counting!
  15. This is also the longest time I have gone without seeing my mom!
  16. I like reading magazines back to front- there is some great stuff at the back, you are usually too tired to notice by the time you get there.
  17. I don't understand the point of Twitter - really I tried.
  18. I hate flying- I believe if we were meant to fly, we would have been created with wings.
  19. I owned a Wii for 2 weeks before returning it because it did not have the option to set it to English
  20. My first trip overseas was only 3 years ago - in total I have checked in to 8 countries outside SA, I think the travel bug has bit me.
  21. Salted Popcorn is my favourite snack.
  22. Chocolate is overrated, whilst sleeping in on Saturday morning is underrated.
  23. I have completed a half marathon (21.1 km)- don't be impressed, I walked most of it.
  24. I'm in a long distance relationship :( city to city we are 12 575 km apart but growing closer everyday.
  25. I don't like my handwriting - is it too late to fix that?
  26. I love going to movies - always better on the big screen!
  27. I'm the only black girl I know who has never worn a weave.
  28. I don't like weaves.
  29. There is a 10 year gap between me and my next (& youngest) sibling.
  30. I wrote my learners 3 times.
  31. I did my drivers test 3 times.
  32. Snorkeling - only done it once, but absolutely loved it.
  33. Studied a Bachelors Degree in Information Systems@ U.C.T - I can't remember what I studied.
  34. I have convinced myself that if I buy an amazon kindle I will read more....
  35. I love a beautiful sunset.
  36. Sometimes I like to reward myself before the job is done.
  37. I have a bucket list
  38. The bucket list keeps changing.
  39. You are never too old to go on a roller coaster.
  40. Purple is my colour.
  41. I love chick-flicks.
  42. On average I do laundry twice a week but my basket is never empty.
  43. I hate second hand smoke. 
  44. I'll pay for a good laugh -attending comedy shows is an obsession.
  45. My family and I celebrate my birthday over 3 days, 5th, 6th and 7th May -no one seems 100% sure of the facts, but my passport says the 7th, so after 27 years, I have finally decided to go with that.
  46. On my first day of school, I was 5 years old.
  47. The saddest scene in movie history is in the Lion King when Mufasa dies - tears I tell you!
  48. Most of the time, I skip the book and wait for the movie to come out.
  49. The only time I have been hospitalized was for surgery to remove my tonsils at age 6.
  50. I love making lists.
Final thoughts
Adventure must start with running away from home - William Bolitho

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

These are some of my favourite things!

I just want to first of all state, for an absolute fact, that despite the gems here and there in Korea and getting to enjoy 4 distinct seasons! South Africa trumps South Korea in beauty by miles (in my opinion anyway).

Having said that, you just have to admire the Asians for their efficiency. They just know how to make things work. When the people need schools, they make education, up to grade 9, free.  When traffic on the roads get bad, they build a subway. I'm not even going to go into the level of service we get at shops and restaurants, especially as foreigners, they really go the extra mile.

This is my top ten list of things, in no particular order, that I love and will absolutely miss when I finally say goodbye to the R.O.K. They may not be significant to you, but they sure do make my life easier here.

Here we go

1. Super super fast internet- I'm not tech savvy by any means, so simply put - you can watch you tube videos like you watch TV, Uninterrupted! Streaming and Downloading speeds that are just amazing-Love it!

2.  Unbelievable transport system - in my city in particular, I can get to any part of the city with only 1 connection e.g. 2 bus rides or bus ride then change to subway. The best part of this is that, even if I use 2 modes of transport, this will be considered one trip and therefore one fare. All I do is scan my card when I get onto the bus, then scan again when I get off the bus - it will register a time stamp on it. Then, I hop onto my next mode of transport within 30 minutes (but not a return trip) to my destination- when I scan my card, it reads it as one journey!



3. Pictured above is an example of a digital board which can be found at most major bus stops. You don't have to be able to read Korean. You just need to know the bus number (left column) that you are waiting for, then the green column is the number of minutes you have to wait for its arrival - mystery solved.

4. The safety- when we hear statistics in South Africa, we know its bad but because we grow up in that environment, we grow up always preparing for the worse. We are always on the look out, you do it subconsciously. This becomes apparent to you when you live in an environment where you realise not everyone is out to get you and your stuff. This shouldn't give you permission to be careless but I can't even begin to describe how great it is to be able to take public transport at night with money and camera on hand- ALL BY MYSELF, without having to look over my back. I've heard of countless stories of people losing their phones in other cities, but somehow they are tracked down and the phone is delivered to them. I, myself, have forgotten my camera and returned later to find it waiting for me. Not to say this would never happen at home, but let's just say I haven't been that lucky yet.


5. This is a picture of the lockers that you can find at most subway stations. You can safely store your belongings e.g. shopping while you go on your merry way to dance the night away, without a worry. You insert money, choose a locker, choose your own pin code and voila!


6.  As the name says, its a bill exchange machine, commonly found right next to the lockers (see no. 5) at subway stations. You slot your big notes (see arrow), in SA terms, say R100. Then the slot below will churn out R10 notes. I guess the idea is that if you want to load credits on your transport card but don't have small change, this is the solution. For me however, this is perfect to make lose change for paying people back the right amounts and having enough money when its time to settle the bill at the restaurant - you know how the conversation goes- you need R20 change but end up walking out with R7 because there was no change. You can see how this can be awkward 2 days before pay day!

7. This is an etiquette bell found sporadically in public bathrooms, the times I have encountered them, I am usually at a department store - think Stuttafords. At first glance, I thought if I press this bell, one of the ladies will be notified and they will kindly bring me a toilet roll.  If you thought the same as me, then we are both wrong. I recently found out that this device is used to disguise the embarrassing sounds one might make while using the loo. You press the button and it plays a tune of a toilet flushing for a long enough time for you to, well let's just say, get comfortable. Some have even heard the sounds of waterfalls. Either way, no need to time your cough anymore, wink wink.


8. Now I know a few of you might be creeped out by the idea of a warm toilet seat as this indicates that someone might have been sitting on it toooooo long, but here me out. This invention (with the fancy buttons on the side) is a super idea.  Although I have not experienced the height of winter in Korea yet, I can tell you, thinking of my winter nights in boarding school - this bad boy could have come in handy. Take comfort in the fact that the warm seat is not from someone sitting there too long, but rather electronic heating. Phew!


9. Although homes with central or floor heating can be found in South Africa, it is still exclusively for the rich. However, because the winter temperatures here in Korea are unfathomable for South Africans, a lot of homes have central heating. I, myself, for the first time in my life, live in a place with floor heating, despite the fact that I live in a tiny studio apartment. Now my only problem is that I was using it at extremely high temperatures in what Koreans insisted was "spring".....?


10. Last but not least - Free Gym. Although synonymous with the "grandparents", exercise equipments in the parks are for everyone. Although I have not had the guts to exercise in public, I am quite fond of the idea. It promotes great health and wellness and takes away the excuse that you cant afford it! The life expectancy rate in Korea is 78 years compared to South Africa, 49 years old, and in my heart, I believe these free gyms surely play even a small part towards this.

So there it is! Its the small things really. Its the things that people here probably take for granted but I know and appreciate how they make life a little easier.  It is with that in mind that I announce, I'm sold on Korea and have signed a contract to stay another year. Hopefully that means, I will continue to share my stories with you and you can continue to enjoy them.

So raise your glasses, a toast: "To more adventures" Cheers!


Final thoughts: 

A traveler without observation is a bird with no wings. - Moslih Eddin Saadi

Friday, October 14, 2011

Made in Taiwan

Question: Why did the boy tie only one shoe lace on his new pair of shoes?
Answer: Because it said "Made in Taiwan"
Lame I know but I couldn't resist.

Mid September, many Asian countries celebrate Chusoek -  a holiday where they celebrate the return of their ancestors. They prepare lots of food and visit the graves of family members with their offerings.  The dates each year change according to the position of the moon. This year, the holiday fell perfectly on a Monday and Tuesday.  My school celebrated its birthday in the same week, so fortunately this resulted in the school giving me almost an entire week off school.

This gave me a great opportunity to travel again, this time to the Republic of China, Taiwan with my dear friend and colleague Catherine Stark from Ohio, USA.  Fortunately for Americans, their passports gives them access to visit many countries for up to 3 months without a visa, South African passport holders on the other hand, not so fortunate.  Armed with my tourist visa, we embarked on a short but adventurous journey.

Our first night was spent in Taipei, the capital city of Taiwan. We stayed at a hostel near a university area, good choice! Down the street, like any uni area, there is a bustling night life. We paid a visit to the Shida night market - which is the same as a day market but they generally open after lunch till late. This was a great place to do some affordable shopping and sample local cuisine.  Taiwan was my first exposure to Chinese culture and I was incredibly nervous, actually anxious at the thought of eating. Nevertheless I braved up and started slowly by sampling Dim Sum - its basically a small dumpling, usually bite size, stuffed with vegetable or meat. Very yummy, "so far so good" I tell myself. We walked around the market confused as to where to eat dinner, I know I'm hungry but my appetite keeps going and coming back because every once in a while this potent smell keeps hitting us yet no one else around seems to be disturbed by it. We later discovered their signature and firm favourite, 'stinky' tofu - it really stinks and they know and accept it, in fact I don't think they are offended by what we call it.

We decide against Subway and ventured into a traditional Taiwanese restaurant. Catherine ordered a bizarre soup with things floating and ended up only eating the tofu (not stinky) and sipping on the broth. I chose something that resembled a pork chop with vegetables and it wouldn't be Asia if it didn't come with complimentary rice.  I lost count how many times I asked if the meal in front of me was the same as the one I had pointed out on the picture.

On the second day we made our way to the beautiful National Palace Museum to see and learn about Taiwanese history, from weapons and pottery right through to religion. We enjoyed some herbal tea in cups smaller than shot glasses and our new favourite snack, Dim sum. We hopped onto a bus and after missing our stop found ourselves at the exciting and largest night market in Taipei City, Shilin Market. We were coerced into separating with our hard earned Taiwan Dollars shopping. We were not expecting Taiwan to have such amazing bargains so we were a bit unprepared but nevertheless did not leave empty handed. In the evening we boarded the superfast HSR (high speed rail) to Tainan, the 5th largest city and one of the cultural capitals of Taiwan, to explore the south and see how the old meets the new. We arrived safely and checked into Iris Tower, a well run backpackers where we felt right at home the moment we walked in.  We met some interesting characters including an Irish gentleman who was on a scholarship to study Chinese. We asked him to put his skills into practice by helping us find out what movies were showing at the cinema. Amongst other English movies showing, one was titled "Friends with benefits" starring Justin Timberlake. He humourously informed us that the direct translation in Chinese was "Friends never sleep".
The next day we took a city bus tour and visited many temples and historical sites including a museum which had an amazing restaurant where  we enjoyed German beer and ice-cream, anything to keep us cool from the scorching heat.  Being Chusoek, there were many festivities happening around the city. On one of our walks we were lured into watching a street performance we had stumbled upon. The costumes and make up were so elaborate we couldn't resist but eventually the language barrier proved to be too much.

The rest of our stay in Tainan was great and a visit to the night market did not disappoint. We enjoyed some local yet somewhat familiar cuisine and made friends along the way. Being a foreigner in Asia somehow promotes you to instant stardom without effort. Its not uncommon to have people ask to take a picture of you or with you. Catherine and I are convinced there is a website out there where our pictures are being posted under "photo with foreigner" - I have even imagined it to be a competition or race of some sort.

A smooth 4 hours on a slow train ride finds us back in the capital city.  We check into a different hostel this time and met 2 German guys. One tells us that he is currently working in Korea too and hours of conversation began, exchanging ideas of his intention to open an authentic Italian restaurant in his town and our bizarre experiences living as foreigners in Korea. The following day was filled with lots of sightseeing, read: lots of walking.  The exquisite Longshan temple and Taiwan's pride and joy, Taipei 101- the 3rd tallest building in the world, even taller the Petronas Towers in Kuala Lampur, very impressive for a country so small.

A long commute to the last subway stop finds us in the suburb of Danshui. Here we enjoyed a beautiful sunset, something I had not enjoyed since I left the mother city. A lovely stroll along the riverside, some night shopping and refreshing drinks were order of the day. Before kissing Taiwan good bye,  I just had to pick up a souvenir or two and some postcards to send to loved ones.

A long with many fond memories, Taiwan will have a special place in my heart as the first place I truly experienced the life of a backpacker.  I learnt a lot of do's and do not's from Catherine who is far more experienced at this than me. One backpacking trip does not by any means qualify me as an expert. But I would, however, still love to share  some things (that may or may not be obvious to you) that I learnt about living 'out of a suitcase'.

Handy Tips

If, like myself, you are not spontaneous/risk taker or are traveling during peak season, it probably makes more sense to book your accommodation ahead of time, at least for the first night or 2. For me, arriving at the airport in a foreign country not knowing where I'm sleeping that night is far too daunting. I was more  flexible however with the rest of the trip which served us well as we decided to stay in Tainan longer than we had initially planned and didn't have to worry about canceling accommodation somewhere else. This is ideal if you don't have a set itinerary planned or are not sure what a place has to offer, it gives you more room to wiggle. If you decide not to book, have names and contact details of places you can consider on hand. Looking for accommodation while you are stressed out, hungry, battery on phone dying, public transportation almost finished running, is no picnic.

Only pack what you can carry (preferably on your back).  I personally tend to book early morning flights or late evening flights so that I can enjoy an entire day in a particular place as opposed to traveling during the day. But what I sometimes forget is that I get kicked out of the accommodation I'm staying at as early as 10am and find myself stuck with my baggage (literally) the whole day while trying to do some last minute sightseeing. Most safe, world class cities have lockers at main train/bus stations, you can store your luggage in the lockers for the day or  if logistically feasible, some hostels will let you store your bags with them even after check out and you can go pick them up before heading for the airport. If you are not so lucky, you will have to cart the luggage around and you will wish you would have packed lighter.

Choose a hostel with lockers for small valuables.  You may not have considered anything that is not jewelry valuable, but away from home your passport (and probably camera) are the most valuable items on you. If you are sharing a room with strangers, it is unwise to just sleep at night with your passport next to you.  Have your wits about you, not to say everyone is out to get you but there is a lot of crime around the world regarding identity theft, using your passport to enter into countries that certain nations are not allowed to etc. I don't think many of us can fathom the stress of losing a passport whilst in a foreign country but I can imagine it not being funny!

Free WiFi - as much as you are on holiday and probably need a break from everything and everyone, free internet is a must in my books. If not for Facebook and touching base with family, you can use it for searching travel information and making bookings. Money and time spent at or looking for internet cafes soon adds up and its not necessary if you choose a good hostel with WiFi in the first place.

Dont forget to make sure you have made arrangements if you are planning to check in or check out at an 'ungodly' hour, most neighbourhood hostels will not have 24 hr reception.

Finished a book you are reading? Apparently its an unsaid rule amongst the backpacking community that if the hostel has a book shelf with random reads, you may leave your book on the shelf and pick up another read to enjoy for the rest of your journey. The books on the shelf have been left by previous travelers for you to enjoy, so you can make a contribution (and benefit) too.

If you leave your 7 step beauty regime in the bathrooms, you are implying that all guests may use it. This however does not apply for food. In some hostels the common fridge has a shelf where you can put your things on with your name on it and then a common shelf where you can put something there for all to enjoy. Surprisingly, I found the shelf for sharing was fuller than the rest.

Everybody's experience will be different, no doubt, and you might not strike gold every time when choosing a hostel but doing a bit of homework is well worth it. Taiwan was awesome and I think a little piece of my heart got left behind. Maybe in the near future I will realise, I cannot live without that piece and will be left with no choice but to return. Thanks Catherine for an awesome time and great laughs.

Final thoughts:

When preparing to travel, lay out all your clothes and all your money. Then take half the clothes and twice the money" - Unknown

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

"We're all going on a summer holiday"

One of the best parts of leaving home to "work and travel" abroad is of course the traveling.  For the first time  in my life I think I finally comprehend what a "summer vacation" is all about. I recently had the privilege to, with my friend Raquel, go on a Real summer vacation to Thailand and Cambodia for 2 weeks.  We experienced many emotions before, during and after the holiday including but not limited to excitement, stress and "thats why travel agents still have jobs" moments.


Our trip started with a 4 hour bus ride from our "Colourful" Daegu to Inchoen Airport. We were immediately blessed with an opening on the flight almost 2 hours earlier than the one we were actually checking in for. A pit stop at Starbucks for my morning fix and off we went.  Our flight was not "smooth as silk" as promised by the airline but the Thai green curry served quickly made me forget my woes.  Upon landing, our big smiles upgraded us to "diplomatic status" and we were swiftly guided to passport control where there was no waiting. Sawadika, we have arrived! After checking in to our accommodation, we hit the road running to check out the organised, yet at the same time chaotic, Bangkok.

Day 1 Sukhumvit
This is a major street shopping district, with restaurants (representing every country in the world) bars and nightlife. They sell anything from key rings, Sharks boxer shorts and Ray bans, to tasers and performance enhancement drugs (and I'm not talking about the ones for athletes).


Day 2 Rocky boat ride & Grand Palace
We took an incredibly 'dangerous but definitely worth it' boat ride and really got to see the heart of the city- not for the fainthearted but highly recommended.
First time on a Tuk-Tuk and all I have to say is: the system works.
The Grand Palace was beautiful and nothing short of 'blinging'. I had to purchase a surrong outside the gates to avoid the long queue of people waiting to "borrow" clothes to appropriately cover themselves. Men no shorts, Women no leggings or tank tops- you have been warned.

Day 3 Travel to Phnom Penh
Tuk tuk vs the motorbike - adventurous ride either way, the choice is yours.  Cambodians sure do know how to make a car seem redundant. A family of 5 on one motorbike - seems so surreal, doesn't it?

Lounged in and by the pool of Imprevu Bungalows and the temperature of the water was just right. We enjoyed a good piece of steak for the first time since we left home (read 6 months). I didn't know I liked steak until I couldn't have it for so long.

Day 4 Sightseeing in Phnom Penh
Woke up and noticed bottled water in the bathroom and only then figured out that the water was for us to brush our teeth with. This is after we had already done so with tap water the night before, we were relieved not to have woken up with our teeth next to us.
Mr Bora - our faithful tuk-tuk driver was there before I could swallow my breakfast. He took us to the main attractions of the capital city which included their version of the Holocaust called the Killing fields , incredibly sad but very informative. We didn't have the courage to see the prison but I can tell you the Khmer people have a difficult past. We also swung by the Royal Palace and National Museum, all the while Mr Bora waited patiently at the gates at each and everyone of them while we were sightseeing. Ended the day with shopping at the Russian Market with bargains at a steal. Mr Bora treated us like royalty! Hiring a tuk-tuk for the day is the way to go. Meet the man himself.

Day 5 To Angkor Whaaaat?
A relatively bumpy ride to Siem Reap but handsomely rewarded with a great hotel with friendly staff, good service and our secret indulgence - WiFi.
Quad biking through the rice paddies and seeing how the locals live. The Sunset tour quickly became a storm and thats when all the fun began. The sandy roads became muddy and sludgy.  Some of the bikes in our group got stuck in the mud but yours truly safely maneuvered her way without a glitch. Raquel, played the daring role of photographer supreme to capture the moments on the back of a bumpy ride. The day ended with the bubbles of the jacuzzi rewarding us for a job well done.


Day 6 Bayon Temples, Tomb Raider and the majestic Angkor Wat
We spared no expense on this one and got a recommended, fluent in English, tour guide and chauffeur to drive us around in an air-conditioned car which sure came in handy as the sun started doing its thing.
The temples were gorgeous and our dear tour guide Mr Som doubled as a photographer, telling us exactly how to pose for the camera.
We enjoyed a lovely dinner outdoors and bargain hunting at the night market. A $1 foot massage was in order and we were humoured by our masseuse who, in conversation, confidently said her son was 2 and her daughter was 6  o'clock - of course meaning 6 years old. She quickly corrected herself and we all had a good time laughing.

Day 7 Return to Bangkok
We were incredibly blessed to literally have door to door service from our hotel in Cambodia, across the border to our hotel in Thailand. My friend, Laurentia, calls this a Godincidence. The bus picked us up from our hotel at 8am, picking up along the way other travelers making their way to Bangkok. Road tripping, meeting a funny Italian who owns a candy shop and Muay Thai school in Sicily, to waiting to be stamped out, lurking in no mans land, stamped into Thailand and finally 10 hours later our mini bus was conveniently parked outside our hotel near Khaosan Road.

Day 8 Exploring Khaosan Road and Chatuchak Weekend Market
We found ourselves coerced into a "You scratch my back, I scratch yours" situation. Let me explain. The tuk-tuk drivers have an agreement with certain tailors and jewelry stores (which we were in no way interested in) that if they do a pitstop by their stores and entice us to look around, they would get a coupon from the store to fill up their tuk-tuks with petrol. Why didn't we refuse you ask? Well it turns out, if we do not make the pitstop at the tailors, we pay 10 times more for the ride to our destination than if we just go into the store and allow our guy to get his coupon, so we opted for the latter. Luckily it is not compulsory for us to buy, so we took a quick snoop around, our guy got his coupon and everyone was happy.
The afternoon showers almost dampened our hopes for the Chatuchak market but patience served us well. More bargain hunting and in case you over do it with the spending, there are shipping companies on stand by so you can make your purchases and have them delivered to your home country- talk about service. MBK mall for more shopping where Raquel found herself singing waka waka for a discount. By the end of it, we deduced that some people may be under the notion that Shakira is South African, nevertheless I digress. Khaosan road is bustling with music, great food and all sorts of antics. Foreigners feel right at home here and the delicious Chicken Korma at the indian restaurant around the corner from our hotel had something to do with that homey feel.

Day 9 Last day in Bangkok
Our plans went off the railroad track a bit but all ended well. We were supposed to be on an overnight sleeper train to Phuket the night before but because we did not prebook we found ourselves homeless. But with every cloud, there is always a silver lining, another night in Bangkok. We checked into a "never to return" type hotel to just put our heads down for the night. This is the part of the trip I'd prefer not to remember.  The place was in plain and simple terms, DODGY.

Day 10 To Ko Phi Phi and beyond
Relieved to be still alive, we had a wholesome breakfast and saw the last of Khaosan Road. Manicure and Pedicure were order of the day and I was glad to know my feet were not the worst they have seen.
After some pampering and good food, we made our way to the station to begin our long commute to Phiphi Island. Luxury bus overnight, not so luxury bus for a few hours to the pier and lastly a ferry ride to the beautiful PhiPhi. First impressions: Its exactly like postcards and this comes from a place of being misled one too many times. The only way to our bungalows is a long walk from the pier or by a fisherman's boat.


Day 11 Exploring the Islands
Breakfast on the beach over looking turquoise waters and being only 20 steps from our room to the water, naturally meant spending the day swimming, all the while watching the boats take holiday makers on and off the island. The afternoon was spent on a group tour exploring the smaller islands including none other than the exquisite Maya Beach, the location for the movie The Beach with Leonardo di Caprio.  We also dabbled in some snorkeling which I took a liking for.  Please take note that hoisting yourself back into a boat from the water (as opposed to solid ground) is not a walk in the park.


Day 12 Phuket- Patong Beach
Breakfast at the beach just one more time, soaking it all in. A ferry ride to Phuket and lastly a minibus to our hotel at Patong Beach.  Delicious Mexican food to end a gorgeous summers day as the sun set over the horizon.
An attempt at exploring the night life left us with our jaws dropping. As our Irish travel buddy so aptly described it, Patong's night life is somewhat "Sleazy", although I would still say thats an understatement.

Day 13 Fantastic Fantasea
Lounging around the beach while having fresh fruits and drinks served to you is my kind of day. In the evening we were transported to the enchanting elephant show, Fantasea, which brings out the child in you and makes you feel like you are in the middle of a fairy tale. A perfect way to end a summer vacation.

Day 14 Return to the ROK (Republic of Korea)
All good things come to an end and although much fun was had by all, living out of a suitcase is not really sustainable living. This was an incredible experience with a great travel companion - thanks my friend, we can definitely do this again. Im so grateful to God for this wonderful and eye-opening adventure. To end with the famous words we have all heard too often: "Vacation is over, now back to work!"
Final Thoughts:

"No man needs a vacation so much as the person who has just had one." Elbert Hubbard




Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Halfway There!

A week ago today, I finished my first semester as a Guest English Teacher in Asia and already feel like I have a lifetime of memories. There have been some weird and wonderful moments. I have met some amazing people, tasted interesting foods and experienced a whole new way of life. Today I want to share with you some of the random highlights, in no particular order, that may not be big or bold to you, but have certainly been imprinted in my mind.

Here goes:

Sharing pavement with cars - As my dear friend Keke aptly put it, Korea does not have road rules, just guidelines. It is not uncommon to walk on the pavement but feel as unsafe as standing in the middle of the N1 wearing all black at night.

Weird compliments - "You have a nice forehead", Oh ok, thanks - I guess.

In Korea, you don't go window shopping but you do go "eye shopping"

The 3 in 1 bathroom - Simply put, your bathroom has a toilet, a basin but no shower. The shower head is attached to the wall and your entire bathroom becomes the actual shower. At first, this didn't make sense, but for a country so strapped for space, I now realise its ingenious and you never have to mop the floor.

Visiting the capital city, Seoul which has a population larger than New York, to date the biggest city I have travelled to.

Hillsong (Aftermath) Worship Night in Seoul

Eating French Fries with chopsticks

Rice served at every meal!

My first 4D Movie

Accepting that the funny emails that were sent around the office about bad spelling or the incorrect use of English on billboards in foreign countries are quite possibly true. At orientation, the door to the fire escape of the university residence we were staying in had a sign boldly put up. From that moment, I realised our work as English teachers was cut out for us.



Watching the first of many Cirque de Soleil (Verakai) shows- following all of them around the world has suddenly crept into my bucket list.

Realising that there is no such thing as "Ching Chong Cha" (Rock, Paper, Scissors). Students use it all the time to make life changing decisions. I always assumed "Ching Chong Cha" is from the far east, possibly China, but if they don't even say it in Asia, I don't know where we all got it from.

T-shirts with sayings that don't make sense. One of the T-shirts I bought here says,
I have a classic car
Classic Car driver
My life is classic car

The answer to every question is preceded with a maybe.
Foreigner: "Can I leave early this afternoon, I need to go to the  bank to sort out a few things?"
Korean: "Maybe, yes, maybe"
Foreigner: ??????

South African: Ek is lis for some pap and vleis
Westerner: What is Pap? How would you describe it?
Keke: (with no hesitation) Its like a white cloud
Westerner: Wow, I cant wait to visit South Africa, so I can taste the cloud meal

Creativity of students:
Q: The part of the body where you wear a watch
A: Hand neck
Q:What is the difference between which and witch
A: The other one is a "bad grandma"
Q: If a dentist is a doctor for teeth, what is an eye doctor?
A: An Eyetist
                                    
And lastly embracing my new title: "Teacher Phumi"

Quitting a great job of four years, leaving a comfortable lifestyle in a great city, friends and family and parting from my best friend and soul mate to make one of my many dreams (of working and travelling abroad) come true, was not the easiest decision to make but it sure has been the best.  Thank you to everyone who helped and supported my decision to come here. Thank you for the skype dates, emails and Facebook messages that make me feel ironically closer to home than ever before.  I am truly grateful.

Final Thoughts:

"To travel is to discover that everyone is wrong about other countries." - Aldous Huxley

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Everybody Say Kimchi

No one described it better than Oliver Twist when he sung "Food Glorious Good".  I will admit, I am no food guru and don't particularly have a well trained palette, but taste buds don't lie.  My tongue is all about first impressions, therefore foods that have an "acquired taste", quickly fall by the wayside. Having said that, I do consider myself reasonably open minded when trying out exotic dishes.

"Cheese" is the tune we sing to bring out the "great white" when posing in a picture. Similarly, Koreans also reach for their big smiles with the call of one of their very own home grown dishes - "Kimchi" (or Gimchi).  Kimchi is to Koreans, as what Pap (and bread) is to South Africans. Its a spicy cabbage (reddish in colour from the red pepper powder used to season it). It is served as a side dish at almost every meal, alongside its fellow companion, Mr (sticky) Rice. I don't particularly enjoy the taste of Kimchi myself but this is probably caused by the fact that I have a specific idea of how cabbage is suppose to taste and I just can't seem to break through that wall. I'm not the only one who feels the same way.  A good friend of mine jokingly dubbed it as Korea's natural disaster.

But don't be disheartened, there are plenty of local dishes that are incredibly delicious and full of flavour. I have particularly become fond of a rice dish called "Bibimpap". It starts with sticky rice in the centre of the bowl, then it is toppled with an assortment of colourful vegetables placed in a circle around the rice and as the cherry on top - a sunny side egg. For a meaty taste, some restaurants may add shredded beef with the concoction of vegetables, always a pleasant surprise. Like a four year old, you disrupt this picturesque arrangement by taking a spoon (and/or chop sticks) and mixing it all up. Delightful.


Soup is also a firm favourite amongst Koreans. Most families serve soup with their meals everyday, winter and summer alike. The soups are not as creamy and rich as what I am used to back home, but that also makes them far more healthier. They are generally vegetarian friendly too.

I do find food is more expensive here than at home, especially fruit, but still affordable. This, however, does not hold necessarily true to dining out. Grocery shopping requires much effort on my part. I'm still surprised that I spend twice the time at the supermarket here than at Pick n Pay but come home with less than half the number of products. Trying to figure out the products can take a while. I often have to shake the packet around or look for fine print which if Im lucky may be in English. International branding does help, even without my Konglish, I can always find my Activia yoghurt.

Food is such an integral part of a country's culture and Koreans really take their food seriously.  Simple meals turn into feasts because of all the complimentary side dishes that accompany the meal. The portions are generous yet you seldom feel like sleeping after eating from over indulgence. Yes, they eat fried foods, but overall, the local cuisine has plenty health benefits and best of all the people are knowledgeable about these benefits. Every time I have been reluctant to eat something, I am quickly reminded of this and I immediately surrender.

Food is as much a part of the journey as any sightseeing you can do. It gives you so much more insight about a country's culture and its people. Dining out in Korea (whether eating local cuisine or "western" food) can also be in adventure but more on that later.

Final thoughts:

"If you reject the food, ignore the customs, fear the religion and avoid the people, you might better stay at home" - James Michener

Monday, May 30, 2011

Back to School

Be under no impression that teaching English in a foreign country is an extended holiday; in fact neither is working in any job in any foreign country for that matter.  Kudos to you if they don't even speak English in that country; it makes it that much more interesting.  Having said that, teaching can be incredibly challenging but an equally rewarding job and with my little experience in the job, I can honestly say teaching as a profession does not get half the credit it deserves. But we march on.

I teach at Daeryun Middle School, an all boys 'junior high" school in the suburb of Suseong-Gu, which my friends have rightfully dubbed "The Upper East Side". I was incredibly nervous when this news was first revealed to me since the only teenage boy I knew was my 17 year old brother. In retrospect however, this is working out pretty dandy for me. Besides the occasional punches being thrown around, my kids are well behaved.  And since I attended an all-girls high school, I have no choice but to resort to believing that all boys at that age generally behave like hooligans. The sick bay is as busy as your local home affairs and ice-packs are "the bestseller".

The school is on a hill, sharing the property with the (Daeryun) high school. The school is pretty top notch and that's not just me blowing my own trumpet, I assure you. It is located on a gorgeous campus with great facilities: sporting and academic. The performance of the students of my school in the whole city last year, I'm led to believe was excellent, so from day one the pressure to perform has been very high. Like most schools in Korea, we have a dedicated English Zone which is the specific classroom where students attend English classes. The classroom is equipped with a super cool "smart board", which is an interactive white board- totally rocks. There are also a handful of computers in the room for activities that may require research on the internet.

It can be quite daunting to realise the responsibility we have on our shoulders as foreign teachers, to help these students improve their English conversation skills, but I am quick to take comfort in the fact that Rome wasn't built in a day, right? Its all in a day's work.

Final Thoughts: "One's destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." - Henry Miller



Tuesday, May 3, 2011

The tastes and sights, the sounds and did I mention the smells?

“I strongly believe that being exposed to a new language and culture is a vital form of education. It is eye opening…and there is no better teacher than experience.”

You best believe those were my exact words when I naively submitted my application form to teach English in Korea. I am not sure if I had envisioned this in a dream or something, but let me tell you, I am certainly being educated.

You can imagine the frustration of being in your mid 20’s, having believed that you were reasonably educated, to arrive in Korea and not be able to read, write, speak or hear according to the Koreans.  Mundane tasks such as going to the pharmacy, to get over-the-counter meds, or even going to the bank to link accounts or pay your bills become impossible without a translator with you or at least on standby over the phone.

Amongst locating your nearest bank and pharmacy (or doctor), as part of your “settling in” project, you will also need to find a church, supermarket, a working phone booth and a post office.  I am proud to announce to you all, MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!

Now that all the admin is out of the way, and the “overwhelment” has subsided, I can finally start to genuinely enjoy my time in Korea. It’s not without its challenges. My first attempt at grocery shopping was no picnic. I couldn’t recognize more than half the products on the shelves and if my memory serves me well, I left a 3-story shop with only cereal and milk- Thank you Kellogg’s for having such a large international footprint.

The neon city lights of colourful Daegu just make you want to come out and play.  The sky line may not be my favourite by day, what, with all those high-rise buildings, but at night, I tell you, they sure do sparkle.  Whilst admiring the beauty that surrounds you, you maybe suddenly put off by an incredibly foul, sewage like, smell. I can’t explain it. It happens so unexpectedly; you may be walking merrily down the street (possibly whistling at this point) and the stench just hits you, right between your cheeks. But don’t worry, a few steps down and it’s gone again, just like that. As my friend would say, you could let one (silent) out at this point and no one would even notice. Another unpleasant aspect of Korea that you will need to adjust to quickly, is the sound of someone clearing their throat followed by, how can I put this delicately, the contents of that being excreted on the pavement, only inches away from your open toe shoes. I have recently discovered that this privilege is not reserved for the old. The only advice I have , when you hear the warning signs, I suggest you scurry along.

It hasn’t been all bad news though. Not being able to shop for food initially has meant lots of dining out. Down town has tons of restaurants and I have made it my mission not to be a repeat offender for at least the first 3 months, no matter how good the food is, there are just too many to try out.Coffee shops are littered all over the city, and these continue to support my caffeine addiction. Pastry lovers will have a field day with superb bakery franchises on the corner of every street.  More about the food at a later stage though, I would like to leave you salivating at this point.

Final thoughts

"There are no foreign lands. It is the traveler only who is foreign." - Robert Louis Stevenson

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Let the games begin

Almost two months into my stay in "Colorful Daegu" (Koreans love giving adjectives for their city names) and I have finally decided to take the advice of a good friend and document my thoughts and experiences whilst here as an English teacher in Korea, South Korea that is,  just to clarify.  I am all for adventure but I am certainly not crazy.


In this blog I will try to capture the good, the bad and the ugly of my experiences here in Korea as seen through the eyes of a young "African in the (far) East". Although directed at friends and family, I do hope strangers alike will enjoy the tales I have to share and perhaps find it interesting and some of the information useful.


Length of Dreadlocks: 13 cm


Disclaimer:


  • I am an amateur blogger
  • I am an amateur traveller
  • I am an amateur teacher

There; now that the formalities are out of the way, Let the games begin


Final thoughts:  "A wise traveller never depreciates their own country" - Carlo Goldoni